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What is Gold Star Wives of America?

Gold Star Wives is a Congressionally Chartered non-profit service organization. The charter was granted because GSW is unique in that it is the only service organization capable of providing services to the active duty and service-connected military surviving spouses.  To qualify for membership your spouse must have died while serving on active duty in the Armed Forces or from their service connected disability as a result of that service.

What is the cost of Membership Dues?

Membership dues are $35 per year. The dues year begins January 1 through December 31. New members paying dues after July 1 receive the remainder of the calendar year plus the entire following year membership under their first $35 payment.

Who is eligible for membership?

Membership is extended to anyone whose spouse died while serving on active duty, or of a service-connected cause. Remarriage does not bar membership.

When are the National Newsletters mailed?

There are 4 newsletters a year, mailed the first week of December, March, June, and September. They are mailed at non-profit bulk rates, which means that it could take up to 3 weeks to be delivered. Members may select to have their newsletters emailed as a cost savings to GSW.

How do I contact Veterans Affairs to answer my questions?

You may dial 1-800-827-1000 and this will automatically connect you to your VA Regional Office.

How do I obtain a WWII-type service flag?

A banner with one gold star is available at $6.95 + tax (in some states) + shipping from American Legion Emblem Sales, 1-888-453-4466, M-F 8 a.m. to 6 p.m. eastern time.

How do I reach CHAMPVA, TRICARE, or Meds by Mail to have questions answered?

Champva is available for survivors of service connected disability, or for a spouse who originally qualified for Tricare (Champus) has remarried and then been reinstated. (You cannot go back to Tricare)

ChampvVA is also available for those who have remarried and were at least age 55 when they remarried.

ChampVA - questions: 1-800-733-8387; information 1-888-289-2411; or EMAIL - 

ChampVA Meds by Mail - questions: 1-888-385-0235  

Tricare is available for active duty and retired spouses who have never remarried. 

Tricare - questions: 1-800-538-9552

TFL Meds by Mail (required as of FEB 2014 for TFL)

Is my DIC payment affected when I receive Social Security? 

DIC stands for Dependency and Indemnity Compensation, which is awarded to spouses of active duty, or service connected surviving spouses. There is NO SOCIAL SECURITY OFFSET for DIC. This offset was eliminated in 2004.

What is SBP?

SBP is Survivor Benefit Plan. This usually only affects retirees and is a plan paid into by the retiree so her/his spouse will have benefits after the retiree dies.  If the death of the retiree is additionally caused by a service connection  the surviving spouse would also be entitled to Dependent Indemnity Compensation (DIC).  The SBP is offset by the amount of DIC received (Currently $1215 a month). DIC is non-taxable and SBP and SSIA are.

What does COLA mean?

COLA = Cost of Living Adjustment. For 2014 it will be a 1.5% increase on DIC and allowances paid by the VA. The SBP Cola will be 1%.  The Special Survivor Indemnity allowance is increased by a yearly schedule and not affected by COLA, this allowance is currently set to expire in 2016.

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Gold Star Wives of America, Inc.

Gold Star Wives is a Congressionally Chartered non-profit service organization that is capable of providing services to the active duty and service-connected military surviving spouses.

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Birmingham, Alabama Office
P.O. Box 361986
Birmingham, AL 35236

Phone: 1-888-751-6350

Washington DC Office
200 N.Glebe Road Rm 435
Arlington, VA 22203-3755

Gold Star Wives of America, Inc

Gold Star Wives of America, Inc. is a non-profit 501(C)4 National Military Widow/Widowers Service Organization chartered by the United States Congress. Donations are not deductible as charitable contributions for federal income tax purposes but may be deductible as trade or business expenses.

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